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Why do women judge men for their appearance but complain they want men to get to know them.?

  • Why do women judge men for their appearance but complain they want men to get to know them. Here’s what drove these question… Well I was walking home there was a young woman walk toward me caring small pizza, crazy bread, and a coke on her right hand. She was wearing dark chocolate jacket with some kind fur on it and wearing some kind of tight chocolate pant look like yoga pant. With those pants on, her hips look HOT, look like great child bearing hips, LOL and those leg were tight, strong, WOW and her inner thigh look ..HOT. Her hair was short light brown with half curls and her face look like She hand no make-up on, all natural, light skin. But she look SO beautiful, my heart started to race and look like she had work out hard, to maintain that body, basically she was a 10++ on HOT side of the scale. She looked like 5 feet 6 inches tall, and about 34, 24, 36. When I pass her, and seeing her butt, I’m a but man, so all I want to do is slap that, grab it and make her do my bidding. Now that you know what she looked like, let me explain what happen… What happen is that I was happy to see her, like normal man would, so when she walking towards me I was checking her out. Looking at her hips, legs, pants and inner thighs, so I had my eyes wide open and big smile, looking at her eyes. But she gave me the cold shoulder, she didn’t look at me or anything, she just walked by like I was invisible. She was a cold woman… My understanding… That not the issue, Aright, I get it, I’m not her type, ok, I understand that, I’m scruffy looking, with a beard and I need a hair cut, ok, but all I will remember, it was cold day yesterday. My question is… Why do women do so much work, to look so beautiful, to attract men, to find a men, to find boyfriends, to trap a husband, and to find someone to love. But end-up complaining that they can’t find a man or straight man. I worked as a cashier last year and all I heard women complaining saying that, they want men to get to know them before having sex. But their Judging men for their appearance before they get to know them. I think that why, they are all alone and ending up with men use them all, because their all looking for the clean cut gay men. LOL Respect… Seriously, If women want men to respect them and get to know them, then they must first respect men in their existence. Just showing common respect by look them in the eye and say hello or good bye or have great day or look but don’t touch, not interested good bye or religious women can say god love you bye, all this with smile and sweet tone of voice. I think that all men ask in good or bad days… Please lets discuss this like adults… No fighting now…

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    Dude, I been in many situatins like yours. I have carefully read your story and here is my input. You are a total stranger that crossed her path on the street. She doesn't know what your true intentions are. She probably knows you were interested but doesn't know if you were really being sincere or not. Remember she did not encounter you through friends who can tell her you are someone decent. She is feminine and keeping her guard against strangers, especially men who there might be a slight chance that this man could be a stalker. Women on the street act differently to strangers then if they met on different terms. I KNOW that if she was single and met you through your best friend, or at work, at a party, or if she was sitting alone in a book store and you approached her to ask about the book she was reading, she would have acknowleged you in a more friendly manner. Remember, especially a beautiful woman takes guard to men's advances if they feel the setting could be unsafe. Also, I highly doubt it that she ignored you because she didn't like your appearance. She probably was more concerend about the quick encounterment or she was just having a bad day than to be paying attention to your appearance. I am clean cut, told I am good looking and yet many girls ignore me when I approach them too. That's just life. All you have to do is turn your head and go for the next girl and keep trying. Don't be concerend with how many "turn downs" you would have to take to find her. When you find her, whetever happened in the past doesn't matter, you made your goal. Hope this helps. Until next time

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because they're bitches

D.C David

I agree with you ironically. The nice guy is always run over by women yet the douche bag with the laguna beach haircut gets their interest and they become a tool. Women probably do this to bring down a dude's self-esteem (let him know he doesn't have the goods to attract her), and sometimes there is the cat and mouse thing.....well i know i do it because most of the men I met in the past are idiots (except for a few that i love!^-^) so i view guys kinda negatively. Who knows....

Punklollita777

It IS rather hypocritical, isn't it?

Look me over, I'm the Capm

preach it man. im sick of some women complaining about how men are so superficial and they care about looks only while they themselves are just as superficial. and i find it funny how even the most average looking of girls with 10 pounds of make up hit on the best looking guys and act all surprised when they are turned down....lol.

anoshorahim (official)

Not all women are the same.Please remember that.If you judge someone only on the way they look you might miss out on a great person. I have no idea what Dorothea's answer is supposed to mean.All I can say it is ignore it.

Denise G

Some just like teasing. Maybe she just got back from the gym and didn't have time to change. Good looking women have to bat alot of losers away all day lol. I know what you mean though, my girl's friend was complaining just the other day about this same thing, she can't find a man who respects her as a person, i'm thinking who the f were you thinking you were gonna attract when you put on that low cut top lol.

Bazooka Joe

Well, I'm not like that..but I know EXACTLY what you mean. Women who act like that do not have good personalities, obviously, and you don't want to be with them. They are superficial and shallow. However, about dressing up etc. I make myself look good for ME...not for men. I have a bf and all, but I do it for me. But yeah, as long as a guy isn't rude to me I won't give him the cold shoulder like that. I'm not going to flirt with him back because I am a taken woman..but there is no reason to be nasty. The same hypocritical women, like that one, are the same ones you run into 10 years later, washed up, college drop outs, at a dead end office job, divorced, and with one or two kids- possibly from two different men. You attract what you are. If they are superficial bitches, they will attract assholes who are going to treat them like disposable razors.

ღpeachღ

I don't complain most people are visual I just don't like it when men pick women apart but your right women do that as well. The Dorothea person is a troll block her.

Ayanna

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