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Black girls are only pretty when they don't look Black...?

  • So I'm chatting with this guy( in his late 20's)on msn and he's going on about how I am the hottest woman he's ever seen and blah blah blah. Then he proceeds to tell me I'm sexy because I have a "Spanish girl's face" and a "Black girl's body". In other words, I am only pretty because I don't look Black ( I'm biracial, Black and White) and all Black girls have going for them are their bodies. To me, it doesn't matter if I look Spanish or not, I'm still BLACK. When I called him out on it, he proceeded to tell me how me "race issues take away my beauty"..WOW! Maybe I wouldn't have race issues if people were not constantly ridiculing and putting down myself and other Black women. And to top all this off, he told me that Black people are the most favoured in society, because the government does us favours. He backed this up with a story about how some Black guy on his high school soccer team didn't have to pay the fee because he was Black. He also said the attitudes many Black women have make us less attractive to men. What do you think of all this?

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    It was a compliment. Take it as such, there is no need to constantly look for racism and have fights about it. Also, I find a little problem here. You said you're biracial and a sentence later you say you're black... what happened to the white part suddenly?

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You had a narrow escape. Be happy he let you know what kind of ridiculous person he was upfront. To be honest, I don't mind being a black woman (I am also biracial but I look black) becuase even though I have had many guys reject me based entirely on my race I have learned this is a good thing. The kind of a guy who thinks like that idiot doesn't make ANYONE a good partner. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." - Maya Angelou I'm here to tell you that it's not your fault, if a guy doesn't want to date you because of the color of your skin or your race, he's not the kind of guy you want to be with anyway. (Or even worse, he implies that you are JUST barely good enough for him becuase you don't look like what you are). All's well that ends well. Being a black woman in America is like being an automatic detector for douchebags. Poor white women have no such built in barometer and have to find out the hard way after years of being with a guy. Once you find the right man, none of this matters. I am giving you the benefit of my experience with racist guys who have negative stereotypes of black women. Here are some of the best lines I've heard/been told about Black women and how to really decipher them: Always begins with "I would never date a Black girl becuase ______________": 1. They are all ghetto and loud. Translation: I am a wimp who wants a girl I can boss around. I can't handle a real woman. 2. They are ugly. Translation: I can't get a Black girl so I am like the fox and the grapes. Either that or I need my eyes fixed. 3. Black people are intellectually inferior to my race. Translation: I was raised badly by a racist family. You wouldn't want to date me anyway since I can't look beyond appearances. 4. I don't believe in race mixing. Translation: I am stuck in my ways and am unaware that people are just people. 5. All Black women have AIDS. Translation: I'm stupid. Don't pass my genes on the next generation please. 6. I'm afraid of what people would think: Translation: I am not brave. I just do what everyone tells me to do all the time. You wouldn't want to date such a wimp anyway. 6. I just wouldn't. Not even Halle Berry: Translation: I have a tiny penis and think that all Black men have big ones so I would be too afraid to be with a Black woman becuase I think she would judge me and my tiny penis. I am insecure, you don't want me anyway. So in conclusion, hold in there becuase one day you will meet a guy who loves you for you. Not becuase you have a Spanish face. (What does that even mean? He clearly is one of those people who's genes should not be passed on anyway) ♥ ♥ ♥

Nine

black girls are beautiful,even though my girlfriend is mixed.

ＡTＬ Ni99uh

I think the man you were talking to was racist. Don't associate yourself with people like that, they aren't even worth your time.

Lo

I think he's retarded. But I do have to say that the MAINSTREAM media does favor black women with 'whitewashed' beauty. Look at Halle Berry and Tyra Banks. They do not have typical black features. But when it comes to beauty it is really all subjective. @Becky, you deserve an uppercut in the baby-maker for that one. @BlakeFoster, don't generalize. All white people are not racist.

Greg P

The attitudes of black women? Apparently because of this person's nasty statement, white people have the bad attitudes because they are so hateful. Pumpkin on i love ny show spit in someones face but because she is a white girl it makes her look classy spitting? Tell that man to date pumpkin from "i love ny" so she can spit on him.

BlakeFoster

Generalization at its worst. I'm black and I don't match the stereotypes of being loud, having attitudes..those are just some black women not all of them. That dude needs to get a life Stereotypes are so annoying and I'm tired of them. And I'm not ugly

sweetgirl

yeah he sounds like a wack job. thats so sad that people think that way. they hate us though. : \

Gone, Gone, Gone.

I think its time to find someone else to chat with.

BioRed

That's just one guys opinion. It's not true.

Anita

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