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My mom thinks that I want to be a guy (I think gay's the word??) I KNOW I don't. She says she's sure. HELP!!!?

  • I'm 13 and a GIRL. I don't like wearing dresses because whenever I do she talks about my boobs, butt, and ugly legs. She thinks there's something wrong with me. I LOVE wearing athletic shorts and T-shirts because I play softball, soccer, and basketball. She says I look like a guy and that I should be learning how to dance and take art and knitting classes When I was really little I had two guy friends. But now I have all girl friends. I hate wearing the dress shoes/sandals that my mom buys me because they look ugly. She says that I always wear sneakers which is a sign that I was gay. I'd LOVE to wear boots but my mom says they look ugly! I have crushes on guys, but my mom won't let me date. Whenever she talks about reproduction/puberty I blush and say it's gross. She thinks there's something wrong with me. I never tell anything to my mom anymore. it's because she's so opinionated. i can't tell her that i have a crush on a guy. she'd just slap me. She grounded me for talking to a guy once. Since I wasn't allowed to date until after college, I told her he was just a friend of mine. She told me I wasn't allowed to make guy friends (she said it was abnormal for a girl). I'm an only child. I go shopping with my friends but I just can't buy anything my mom doesn't want me to buy because she'll see it and ground me. please help. i

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    Hun, it's your mom with the problem not you, and if you ever need to talk just message me. I think you need to have a talk with your school councilor about it, it sounds like your moms having problems, she shouldn't be putting you down like that at all. She sounds awful, she needs to see someone, you don't have to put up with that, it's like emotional abuse you need to tell someone okay, its not normal for her to do that. Alot of girls play basketball and stuff it's normal i promise ! She needs help, until she gets it, nobody will be able to explain anything to her. x

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well do u look like one? i mean u should just go out and buy a green girly shirt and green girly skirt...cuz yea i love green xD then do your hair all emo/scene. cuz that would be awsome <3

tjhall1000

your just a tomboy. i am too

Nilo & Khallisa

You're a tom boy, and there's nothing wrong with that. She needs to learn to love the daughter she has, not the one she wants...

Ben

Your mother is a little out-there. Try talking to your dad or another family member.

Tyler

aww thats sad, but you need to tell it to her strait "mom! i like wearing what i do and if you cant understand that, then im sorry for you but this is me." good luck!

Joe

wow. your mom shouldnt be ruining your life like that. i mean sure she can say like wear a dress now and then but to say eww your gay is just totally wrong for parents and totally creates bad, insecure parents. go with what you feel is right. and once your out of college move OUT!

carlyy ☮

i used to be like this. but as i got older i started trying out some girl clothes and now im really girly. your only 13, youl grow outta all this as you get older. so tell your mum 2 be quiet

Alesha

Wow...your mom sounds like a *****...and you're not allowed to date until after college...when you graduate high school, you will be legally an adult...you can do whatever the hell you want without your mommy grounding you.

Om...

Your mom is being over-bearing, is assuming A LOT, and maybe even wants you to be gay. Have a talk and get her to chill out, and if that doesn't work, you might want some therapy for her.

Sam G

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