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I dont know if this guy is into me like im into him also how could i ask for his # to text him?

• Okay so im bi and pretty sure of it, i have had a couple relationships with girls but i always get hurt in the end by cheating or heartbroken and I realised in the 8th grade I had an attraction pull towards guys and now im willing to try guys and now im certain im bi and i havent told anyone yet and everyone i know thinks im straight and i show no actions of bieng slightly bi but i dont want to come out right yet because i dont think im ready also how would i explain this to this guy because so far hes told me that people he talks to have been fake to him and I dont want him to think im fake im just not ready to come out and i just dont know how to do it and these people at school who i go wich come out saying they are bi and are but the thing is there girls and for a guy i might get more negative attention but back on the subject I found this one guy on myspace who is bi and attractive but the problem is distance about 4 hours away and we do talk through myspace but he isnt on as often as me and everytime i get on i hope to get a messege from him is that normal? I havent been in a relationship in a year or two now so im idk kinda crushing and its been 4 days all together since i messeged him and he replied i also didnt send him a friend request quite yet because im trying to make things move to fast i want him to know im sincere but tha thing is i dont know the right time to ask him for his number and see if hes looking for a relationship how else could i go and ask him about that then come on like a complete stranger and end up freaking him out i dont want that and im trying not to come on to strong but its hard so i was wondering what can i do to coupe with this whole ordeal lol thanks should i send him a friend request in a day or two then ask for his number a week after? i just like talking to him and when he does reply its like butterflies lol well thanks

• Answer:

  i kno EXACTLY how you feel. i too realized im bi this past year in 8th grade (im only out to my friends) and yeah, there are like, uhm 15? yea 15 bi girls in my grade, and TWO bi guys, one who is out, and me, who isnt. but no one suspects i m bi, considering im not really "flamer" or w.e. anyway, on with the whole myspace thing, taking it slow sounds like a really good idea to me. ive been through this, i started talking to a guy from ohio (like 3 hours away from me) and yes i was seriously convinced i was totally in love with him, we would hardly even text or message but when he did i totally got excitied and my heart would beat, but finally he just wouldnt text me, or message me, i had to message him like 50 times for him to reply a simple " haha" or " yea" finally i realized i wasnt in love or even liked him, i was in love with the idea of liking him. i was just so desparate to find a guy, i was so sick of girls breaking my heart, i jumped to first avaible guy i could find and my mind made my heart think i felt a connection. i dont text him anymore. or message. internet dating is.....well confusing? you cant let yourself think theres a connection by someone you hardly even know. idk, theres really no way i can help, ill admit sometimes ill talk to random guys on myspace cuz i just feel like, so alone. idk, i would like to say i can help but i really dont know. i guess if i had to say something it would be do wat you think its right, but dont let your heart think its falling for somone, not until you know the person, talk to them more often. i know how it feels believe me, i really hope this helps!!!! if you ever need some one to talk too dont be afraid to message me or ask for my myspace, im not good with advice, but i really do understand these kinda things. i really hope i helped!!!!!