What do i do after i get here?

I know this is long but i really need help! how can i get over him! what do i do?

• Ok, so it’s kind of a long story. But basically I have been friends with this guy since grade seven. We were really close. In grade 11, I found out he was gay. And at the start of the year I really started to like him. He didn’t know that I knew because he was an open about it. And I wasn’t out myself to anyone. I started liking him but I didn’t want to, because I wasn’t ready to come out. We had a little fight it wasn’t anything big, but then I stopped talking to him for about five months in the year because I didn’t really know what I was feeling. And I was scared to come out then because I didn’t want my family to hate me. But then I did come out to my family, and although was hired I found out that they still love me. Soon after me and Kyle the guy I liked. Started talking again, and then I came out to the school. Some people were a little shocked, but I didn’t lose any friends. So it has been good for me, but this is where the problem started. I found out he got drunk at a party, and had sex. And I was still OK with him, because I wouldn’t judge him. Around the time that I told them that I liked him, he just broke up with another guy he just met. And although I never got an answer for two weeks if he liked me are not, I told them a lot of personal stuff about me, and my childhood that wasn’t always easy at times. Then he says he doesn’t like me, after I finally tell him to tell me something. And I was fine with that because I finally got an answer. So then a few days later I tell him “I don’t like you anymore”, and Kyle said “why not”. And I still did but I still wanted to be his friend. So by he picked and poked about out it a found out I still did. After that things really started to change, Kyle new that I thought sex should be a private thing between two people who love each other. But then he started talking all sexual all the time and it hurt me. Then one day we get into an argument and he says I have been dating Alex again (they guy he went out with before) and we have been having sex. So I breakdown crying on the last day of school and he just leaves me outside in the rain to cry alone until my mom comes and picks me up. Then over the summer I try my best to get over him, but school has started again and as soon as he broke up with Alex, who is a college student. He wants me to talk to him again, but now there’s also another guy named Chris, who the kind of likes. So I know if I’d be his friend again on Monday played all over again. So a school I don’t talk to him and he knows that. But he still comes out to my friends and I’m talking to them, and he will be like the I’m going to chris’s tonight. And stuff like that but I don’t pay attention to it, I’ve really wanna get over him. But I still believe foolishly that he will go back to the person he used to be. And the more I ignore him the more I think that is finally getting the message. He hasn't done a lot YET, over past 3 days, but he has been turning the sexual games down a bit, I wonder now if I ignore him, and look down upon his sexual remarks. Maybe just maybe, he will change back. i know it will never be 100% how we was before because there theres to much water under the brig but he seems depressed now. I’ve really wanna get over him, I know what you guys think. This kid is so desperate, but you don’t know him, how he was before. he's changed so much, but I would give anything to have the old Kyle back. This was in a crush, this wasn’t something that happen overnight. A truly believe that I loved him. And I think he was scared to love me he says he "loved" his last boyfriend but how could you love someone you known for 3 months, dont love take years to grow??? maybe he thought he would be looked down upon if he went out with me. Because I’m gross looking or anything, but I try to be a good person, I don’t smoke, talk about my sex life, or drink often, and if I do its casual. I really try to do the right thing. He had so much potential, but he destroyed it.

• Answer:

  first things first delete his phone # his email. so you less likely to contact him. dont go where he goes and start dating again or just flirt ... flirting always makes time pass by. and right hes wrog dont eed to be with someone like that