How to find a foreign chatmate?

Is there a way I can find out whom my chatmate is chatting with?

• iI've met a new chatmate and im beginning to like him. He said he likes me too and planning to see me after 10 months. I want to know if what he is saying is true. Today, he ended our converstation saying its late there and he had to go to bed soon. So, we said our goodnights. After sometimes, check his status in invisible-scanner.com and found out he's invisible. I tried chatting with him with another username, he replied 2 words. I feel he is chatting with someone else. Should I continue chatting with this guy?

• Answer:

  do not always hope that a chatmate can just chat with one person all the time and forever. even if he had said he likes you. there is no much meaning to that word unless both of you meet each other and make further conversations. and don't forget, that even meeting this person in personal and even if he becomes your BF and even make some "love" with this person, there is no assurance that this guy is only for you. have more precautions in yourself. do not be fooled right away. it is like playing games lady. *i found my EX on the net before, met with each other and you know already what's next...and even having tours in different countries. but we ended up in a very worst situation. <>you may continue chatting with this guy but don't trust to whatever he says and do not be easily persuaded by your emotions.