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How to become more outgoing?

How do i become more outgoing and make more friends?

  • i'm really unhappy because i don't have a lot of friends. its mostly because im pretty shy and quiet and i have a hard time talking to people. i ddnt used to be like that, though. like, last year i was loud and funny and outgoing and now its like im scared to say anything. i feel like people are getting bored of me and i hate awkward silences and they come around way too often. how do i become more outgoing and talkative?

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    Try some thing new go up to a person and ask them "how there day was" or "whats new" and get them talking then they won't notice if they do most of the talking. Also try saying "awkward silence" in a silly voice when there is one and it will get them talking again that's what I do and now I have way more friends then I could name. One more thing believe in your self and you can do it!! Good luck!! LuLu

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I don't have many friends either, but not because i'm too shy it's just that I'm more to myself then I am outgoing. Try to talk to more people, and just relax. (:

Kay

I'm in the same situation as you. I used to have A TON of friends. They've all moved on now. So I'll let you know when I figure out!

♥ megg♥

unless you do the following steps your life is gonna suck: dont ask how to solve your life problems on the internet, thats quite geeky tbh. and if you wanna be more social and stuff you gotta.. like.. watch tv and stuff so you actually know what your friends are talking about

H H

been there done that. you just got to break out of your shell and talk to people what are you scared of? are you scared theyre going to judge you? people are going to do that weather you talk or not. people wont get bored of you if they do they are not good friends to have. just talk to people sitting next to you and youll make friends. i didnt think it was that easy but i made tons of friends like that. theres always diffrent places you can meet people, school being the main one but also church (if you go), gym, hobbies (like fishing ect), activities, ect ect when you do make friends watch out. dont give your trust out, its really hard to trust others until you form a good bond over time. another thing is friends come and go like seasons. its sad but its the truth. im going to graduate soon so you bet im going to lose friends just from disconnection and people moving out for college (losing my girl this way). well i hope everything works out for you. and it will. it always does. just take life easy and dont let things bother you. lifes too short to be depressed, sad, and quiet. always be happy man, you know its what you deserve.

ARCANE

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