He wont call me, only text, email and AIM; WHY?
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Ive been talking to this guy since april of 2008, we met online, which i know sounds a little off to begin with, but.. its been a really great relationship. We've never actually dated, but we've basically been together -- as in, knowing we have feelings for each other, just not acting on it. There is only one problem that seems to stem or conclude the few arguments we get into. he won't pick up his phone and actually talk to me! Ive looked up people's yahoo questions and they say 'its been a month and all he does is text me' -- its been a year, and all he does is text me. Yes, texting is fun and yes, we have interesting, long and daily conversations via text, email, and AIM but im tiiiiiirrrrrrrreeeeedddd of reading his feelings. The things he says would mean so so so much more if I could actually hear how much he means it over the phone in his own voice. Wouldn't you agree? He says he doesn't want to feel pressured into calling me, that he will "do it on his own time when he wants to". He has told me he just simply hates talking on the phone and my argument is that why wouldn't you do something so simple for someone you supposedly care so much about? Anyway.. it always ends badly. If you have any kind of advice for me.. good or bad.. Im willing to take and consider anything anyone has to say! please respond!
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Answer:
Maybe what Rachel said or maybe it isn't a guy at all. Meeting people online especially not talking to them, you don't know who they are. That may actually be a girl. Or maybe even a young child. Well if they don't want to talk to you personally it can't be that strong of a relationship. Sorry probably not what you were wanting to here. GL
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Maybe his wife would hear him on the phone.
Rachel
First of all... you are NOT in a relationship and you have not "been together". This is an online friend. I'm not fond of talking on the phone either, but in this case, I would say there is something VERY suspicious. Remember... this is online, and online only. I don't know what expectations you have, but it appears that an online relationship is clearly all he wants it to be. As long as you remember that, you'll be fine. If you're hoping it will become a reality... STOP! This guy is hiding something. Be careful what you're sharing with this guy (emails, web cam, texting, etc.) Once any of those things, even if deleted, are on the internet, they could end up just about anywhere. And remember, no matter what, you're not IN a relationship, until you've developed a relationship... IN PERSON! You haven't met someone until you've actually met someone... IN PERSON! Be Careful! Personally, I'd break that online relationship off... and fast!
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