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Yes, that's pretty much how things work. Don't feel too bad, as it's still not uncommon for people to not fully understand all these details as they get involved in startups. The standard story they are used to hearing is always about a startup hitting it big, and everyone getting rich, but of course that's not how it often happens - that's why one should never join the startup thinking about the riches the options will bring. It can be a nice icing on the cake, or even a life-changing event one if things truly do go well, but in the end you better like your team, your mission, and your work e

Yes, that's pretty much how things work. Don't feel too bad, as it's still not uncommon for people to not fully understand all these details as they get involved in startups. The standard story they are used to hearing is always about a startup hitting it big, and everyone getting rich, but of course that's not how it often happens - that's why one should never join the startup thinking about the riches the options will bring. It can be a nice icing on the cake, or even a life-changing event one if things truly do go well, but in the end you better like your team, your mission, and your work enough to stick around for the long haul.

Back to the question - if you can't afford to put up the cash to exercise the options and take care of the tax implications, and your startup isn't hitting serious traction yet, your options are limited. The two main ones are to cut your losses and leave the options on the table if you don't like the company or don't think it will do well, or (hopefully!) buckle down and grind it out until a liquidity event happens because you're doing something awesome, learning a lot, and having fun.

Finally, let me give a brief overview of some other scenarios that I can think of that are relevant, but only apply in specific circumstances.

  • If a startup is really hot and there is a secondary market for the shares, then an employee may be able to exercise and then sell a chunk of their shares to cover the costs of exercise and the tax bill (pretty much the same as Exercise-and-Sell-to-Cover or Exercise-and-Sell for options on publicly traded stocks).
  • The company may make a loan to the employee to cover the costs - usually reserved for high-level executives and/or others who have leverage to negotiate such a deal.
  • An organization / fund / individual may be able to loan the employee the money to cover the costs, in return for future interest in the stock (for an example of such a fund take a look at 137 Ventures)
  • The company may decide to offer an "early exercise" provision in its Stock Option Agreement, and then have the Board approve certain grants as "early exercisable", in which case an employee with such a grant has an option (eek) to exercise their options before they are vested, receiving Restricted Stock (usually with same vesting schedule as the exercised option) rather than Common Stock in return. This is the scenario where an 83(b) election for the restricted stock may be extremely important for tax reasons (but it will do nothing to change your exercise cost). The early exercise option, however, is an additional hassle for the company to set up and administer, and even if it's available, the company has discretion in who it will grant it to. In any case, all this has to be figured out before the option agreement is signed.
  • An early employee may be able to negotiate a grant of Restricted Stock rather than Stock Options. Since there are tax implications, it's easiest to do this while the company stock has only nominal value. It's possible to do later as well, but the additional cost and hassle must be worth it to the company. This is another scenario where an 83(b) election is essential.


Hope this helps, and good luck. Here's one useful link, and Google will give you plenty more:
5 Mistakes You Can't Afford to Make with Stock Options

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I just went through this process myself and it can be a little tricky if you don’t know what you’re looking for. The movie “The Wolf Of WallStreet” comes to mind when shopping for financial advisors…here’s how to not get “Wolfed”!

There are many kinds and specialties of financial advisors - but overall the BEST kind of financial advisor is called a fiduciary. They are legally obligated to put your investment returns first and can lose their license if they try any other investment shenanigans.

Thanks to the internet, there are sites dedicated to finding vetted fiduciary advisors in your area.

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I just went through this process myself and it can be a little tricky if you don’t know what you’re looking for. The movie “The Wolf Of WallStreet” comes to mind when shopping for financial advisors…here’s how to not get “Wolfed”!

There are many kinds and specialties of financial advisors - but overall the BEST kind of financial advisor is called a fiduciary. They are legally obligated to put your investment returns first and can lose their license if they try any other investment shenanigans.

Thanks to the internet, there are sites dedicated to finding vetted fiduciary advisors in your area.

What To Expect

The site I used in the past that connected me with a local, vetted advisor was ComparisonAdviser.

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Given options in an early stage company aren’t normally sellable until there is an exit event, this means paying for the options now (on exercise) and having an asset you may not be able to turn into cash for quite some time.

This decision needs tax advice, I would suggest you talk to an accountant about that.

The bigger question is whether you want to outlay cash now for an asset that may not be worth anything in the future. If you do that, you don’t get your money back, you lose it. With options, the whole point is you don’t pay anything for them until they’re worth something.

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Given options in an early stage company aren’t normally sellable until there is an exit event, this means paying for the options now (on exercise) and having an asset you may not be able to turn into cash for quite some time.

This decision needs tax advice, I would suggest you talk to an accountant about that.

The bigger question is whether you want to outlay cash now for an asset that may not be worth anything in the future. If you do that, you don’t get your money back, you lose it. With options, the whole point is you don’t pay anything for them until they’re worth something.

Your accountant may talk to you about the capital gains benefits of exercising early, which may be true. It’s something worth looking at once you know your employer has a decent customer base, a growing revenue model and is starting to hire a lot of people.

Good luck, hope it goes well for you :)

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"Come here Rover, I have got something to explain to you. Stock Options ....STOP scratching yourself and listen....Stock Options are an offer from the company to allow you to buy company stock at a later date. The cool thing...STOP sniffing my pant leg....The cool thing is that the company will let you buy that stock at today's price. If the stock price goes up then you get a deal. If it goes down, then you get nothing (or close to it). A couple of key details....COME back here and stop rubbing noses with that cute poodle...If you quit your job anything options that haven't vested will prob

"Come here Rover, I have got something to explain to you. Stock Options ....STOP scratching yourself and listen....Stock Options are an offer from the company to allow you to buy company stock at a later date. The cool thing...STOP sniffing my pant leg....The cool thing is that the company will let you buy that stock at today's price. If the stock price goes up then you get a deal. If it goes down, then you get nothing (or close to it). A couple of key details....COME back here and stop rubbing noses with that cute poodle...If you quit your job anything options that haven't vested will probably go back to the company. In fact, ...GEEZ stop pulling at your leash!... the shares you do exercise may also be bought back by the company (I would have to read the plan and agreement to know for sure).

...What did you ask boy? How do you value them?... The company is required by IRC 409A to have a reasonable valuation performed on the company at, or near, the time of grant and again at least annually or whenever the value may have materially changed. ....OK, just hang on and I will get you a treat....The 2000 options you received could have a starting value of a few dollars or a few thousand dollars. It depends on the number of shares outstanding and the total value of the company. The final value will depend on the success of the company, and your ability to keep your options etc. ...I'm not sure what's in the treats, probably beef and bones or something like that...They could be worth nothing or they could be worth millions! The key is working to raise the value of the company as a whole.

I hope this helped a little. Now roll-over and let me rub your tummy.

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